how to get a virgo to trust me?
by Aquaboy on Monday, April 12th, 2010 | 7 Comments
Virgo question, answer please?
3 months ago, I cheated on my virgo ex with a scorpio that I dated for a few months, and just recently broke up with. We tried to start a relationship, but it was all physical attraction, nothing more. We were “friends with benefits” ( **** buddies) Now, I’ve been hanging around my virgo ex, and were trying to rebuild our friendship. He’s been taking me places, like going shopping, and going out to eat, and we even went to the aquarium. I love every minute I spend with him. But, he’s trying to re-build trust in me and I want him to trust me again, how can I do that?
I’m a cancer
That was the first time I cheated on someone
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You should not:
1. Have cheated,
2. Believe in astrology signs, there phony.
Once a cheater always a cheater. He’ll never fully trust you ever again and he shouldn’t.
Well you do this with him just like any other person – you wait, you are patient and you work on the relationship. There is no magical cure unfortunately. With a Virgo especially though, if you have made a logical approach, saying it was in the moment, you weren’t thinking of the consequences and assure him you are fully aware of things now, he is likely to give you another chance. It sounds like he is already.
You both need to agree to wipe the slate clean – no more talking about the affair and you also have to let your guilt go. You won’t be able to repair this if you are both holding on to your old actions.
Forget the Virgo! Scorpios are better! And if u disagree and really want your Virgo back then don’t try so hard to make him trust you, just be natural. He’ll apperciate your honestly and love you for you. Oh and Lilo your not even cool like that!
Keep your word. Show up precisely on time. DO things without being told. Tell him you now realize you were wrong and that your (previous) level of maturity did not prepare you for true committment. Tell him you learned the lesson of CONSEQUENCES. Say that you will make it a point never to hurt them that way again and be sure to stick to your promise or you will be glad to suffer the CONSEQUENCES.
to be honest… a virgo will never truely forgive you for that. its the one thing they cant stand because its everything they are against. even if this person acts like they trust you, they remember every detail and will lash out verbally. also everytime you upset them, they are going to remember this. you will have to do something huge to make a virgo forgive you and gain trust again. i would say you could build thier trust slowly during a long period of time, and never mess up again. this is a hard question, because they are perfectionists no doubt.
Honey, I’ve almost changed my life for Cancers…and seeing this way of thinking reminds me why we aren’t and will never be an item. I am disgusted by your selfishness…I’m sure if he saw this he wouldn’t be too happy either…
What are you offering to this poor Virgo?
You cheated on him. He chose to be with you (we don’t give our hearts away to just anyone) and you threw it away because you wanted a little somethin-somethin from someone who wasn’t your boyfriend. You didn’t think of him at all. You thought of you. And you are doing it again.
Do you know how hard it is to gain our trust? And when you do something like this, do you think we forget that? And look at what you’re asking…it’s what we can do for YOU. What about him?
Do him a favor…leave him alone. If you can’t think of what you can do and be to be with someone, how you can make that person feel love, if you can’t be love, you shouldn’t be getting involved with anyone.
Why don’t you take some time and figure out what you want and why you felt the need to cheat? Work on yourself instead of filling a need because you are afraid to be with your thoughts alone. The time alone will do you wonders.
I know I’m being harsh, my dear. You have it coming and years from now you and he will thank me.